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The root cause leading to your why

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I recently saw a post on social media asking for people to interview on podcasts with a focus on those who are changing the world.  I recommended they looked at the speakers "Why" meaning, "why did they choose to work on changing the world, what was their root cause?" We all have these "root causes" in life that can at times, dictate the direction.  This is something I often reflect on, work on and move towards with positive energy . Although I may not change the entire world, I try to help others see the positive side, the philanthropic ability in each of us and expressing random acts of kindness, the ripple effect.   My personal why is based on several events in life, the roots cause.  I was exposed to many elements that I see now as stepping stones.  I had people who seemed to show up at times in my life that just gave me enough light to see the good in each situation.   Perhaps starting out as each of us do, I wanted to believe the good in eve...

The Cup

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This person I know, they have this .. glow about them.  An amount of positive energy that I’ve not seen in a life time.  Their compassion and empathy is far beyond anyone I’ve met and no matter the difficulties they face in life, they see the brighter side of things.  Perhaps it is that positive energy from inside that lights up the darkness, wipes away fear an consumes any doubt.    They often go out of their way, ignoring their own personal issues to help others.  No complaints, they just do what is needed without drawing boundaries.  Giving is in their nature, kindness is what makes their heart beat.   Sometimes though, when this person gives all of themselves, they find their cup empty, possibly at the moment completely drained.  The energy gone and nothing left to give themselves or those closest to them.  Unaware, they are unable to do much and need to step away.  What others know as “a recharge” to fill the cup back up. ...

Gift Four

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Time Although this is something we feel robbed of, we should never take for granted. It teaches us perspective, patience and  empathy.  Time is space and evolution of matter which signifies growth. Today, take time for yourself and give time to others.

Gift Three

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 Your breath Without this, life doesn’t happen.  So, take a deep one.  A long one. Now, exhale.   What was that?   You just gave another life a moment.  Don’t ever think life isn’t important to you and to those around you.  Your breath gives others life and feeds more than you’ll ever know.   Keep on breathing, slow down and live life. 

Gift two

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 Hope It seems as though some of us think we lose it but deep inside, there is always a wee glimmer. Something that we are all born with.  We hope for others and for our future.   Hope is a gift not to let go of.  It feeds our souls, drives our passions and helps format our dreams.  Hope may dim but is always within each of us.   So, go ahead.  Hope for better and more.  No matter how difficult it may seem, have hope and never give up. (This photo was after I hiked to the peak of Thanksgiving Mountain where I rediscovered hope)

Gift one

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Gratitude. This gift is one we feel.  It is an emotion, an expression and it changes how we see life.  Gratitude can not be taken away but can be given in abundance, with love.   (This is a photo of my father and I.  The gratitude I have for a moment like this fills my cup and brings me more joy that I could ever express) The benefits we gain from gratitude are emotional, social, personality, career and health.   Today, take a moment with yourself and be present.  Reflect on something that has given you joy and hold on to it.  

Share your gifts

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There comes a time in life for each of us, when we recognize the gifts that have been given.  These may not be monetary or physical but gifts of life.  Seeing as the holidays are approaching, I will share with you gifts received in my life to this date.  This isn’t a challenge but a simple task of expressing love.  Be prepared for honesty, vulnerability and perhaps a few laughs.  Then, I challenge you to share your gifts.   Love, Nicky