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The White Horse No More

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Throughout the last few years, my journey has taught me a lot of things, one of the most important has been on mental health.   History repeats itself unless we brave the wilderness to confront it, challenge it and then change it.   5 brothers, I’ve been married 2 times & I have 2 boys.  I’ve seen what men go through and frankly it upsets me a lot.   Men are expected to be the strong hold in a family, to listen to their elders and do what they are told, even if it isn’t right.  Why?  Well, from what I understand, if men don’t, they are then chastised, belittled and made to feel as if they’ve betrayed the “man code”.   Don’t get me wrong, I believe this is changing but I have seen first hand, the misogyny, bigotry and conformity men face.  Frankly I dislike it. I’ve seen men be told to.. “shut up and sit down”  that .. “if they can’t be a man, they are a (insert name of female genitalia)”  A man should know his place in the family, as a woman should.  A man should ... not cry. Who